Ketura Topps4 minThe Olive Branch You've Been Waiting For: 6 Steps to Create Inner PeaceA portion of codependency rests on the simple fact that one person wants to keep the peace - to never ruffle the feathers of the other pe...
Ketura Topps4 minChakra Shock!I live in California, the United States' mecca of the holistic, mind/body/spirit movement and yet not many people I come across know abou...
Ketura Topps5 minWanna Save The World?About a decade ago, my dad and I were talking about the world's problems, specifically about third world countries and their need for cle...
Ketura Topps5 minBoyndaries: Balancing Our BoysA friend of mine who’s a boy mom recently told me, “I have a really smart son, so sometimes I let him enter into a debate with me regardi...
Ketura Topps2 minTrain Your Mind: Long Lasting, Effective, Free Self CareIs self care becoming an uninspired chore? Have you forgotten why you do it or why you were interested in the first place? For those of u...
Ketura Topps4 minLet's Talk ViolenceAs with all survivors, a LOT was stirred within me in response to Dr. Ford’s and Judge Kavanaugh’s respective hearings. I do not wish to ...
Ketura Topps4 minAre You A Rachel or Monica?!Remember on Friends when Phoebe called Monica controlling and Rachel a pushover?! Then they argued defensively but it was very clear when...
Ketura Topps3 minWhat Am I Doing?!“It’s been so long! How are you?!" The dreaded question is asked after not seeing someone for years and you’re still stuck in the same ro...
Ketura Topps3 minWhat Are Your Boundaries?Boundaries protect our mind, body, and spirit and they stem from how much worth we put in ourselves and how much we expect from others. T...
Ketura Topps2 minBereft & RootedIt has been 2 years since I left my abusive ex husband. A man I thought would never hurt me. A man with whom I thought I would spend the ...
Ketura Topps5 minWho Needs A Momcation?!“Me Time” when you’re a mother might be yet another ploy to make a woman feel guilty. Not only are you focusing on and sometimes struggli...
Ketura Topps6 minHow To Effectively Follow or LeadFemales are the future. Let’s face it: in our past we were complacent toward being dismissed, overlooked, and taken advantage of; but our...
Ketura Topps5 minPractical Path: From Passion To ProfessionNot everyone knows what they’re called to do. Not many know their purpose. I am lucky in that regard - I know I am called to help. It exc...
Ketura Topps7 minDo I Stay or Do I Go Now?When I speak with, and empathize with, ladies who are in red flag relationships, or even the women whose relationships have gone so far a...
Ketura Topps4 minIt's All In The TimingI took a week off from blogging. I wasn’t overwhelmed by the pressure I put on myself to post new content every week, in fact I wasn’t ov...
Ketura Topps4 minBringing Earthy Vibes to Your Concrete ChaosThe universe speaks. Its voice is crystal clear if you’re paying attention. People often mistake its voice as random repetition of messag...
Ketura Topps3 minNo Standards For You!Anyone who knows me knows I’m a HUGE Seinfeld buff. I was watching the episode “The Fix-Up” and the following conversation gave me an ide...
Ketura Topps4 minMirror, Mirror On the WallSpinning around. Seeing no way out. Only seeing yourself. Rather, reflections of yourself. You’re stuck in a house of mirrors. A funhouse...
Ketura Topps3 minGood Men are Like the Stars: Countless & ExpectedAfter a painful divorce my sister and brother-in-law graciously let me live with them. I’ll never forget what my BIL said to me in the mi...
Ketura Topps4 minLeft UnattendedFinally a day off with your honey*! You’ve been looking forward to this all week. Sure, you’ll want to get some chores and possibly some ...